I got out for my walk & John challenged me to jog. I did a light jog/walk for 1.3 miles. My ass jiggles way too much! However, my shoulder did not hurt!
So I mentioned Serge...we went to the Cape to see him. He had been transported to Boston to be evaluated. He was too aggressive for the nursing home.
I told John that I was worried that he was feeling abandoned. Christine has not been up to see him since she has him admitted to the nursing home FOUR FUCKING WEEKS AGO! Okay, granted she has children & therefore other responsibilities but for Christ's sake--don't visit, don't call??? Yeah.
I asked him what he thinks of having Serge admitted to our a facility close to us. His sister only visits the Cape for 2 1/2 months out of the year, she only goes during the winter IF there is an urgent matter to attend to. If he is close to us, John can go see him during the week & Christine can come visit him when she comes down this way.
He ran it past her & she was all over it. Serge is being transferred to us in a few days. When I say us--to a facility that specializes in aggressively behaved dementia patients.
I hope we (by that I mean I) don't regret it.