Is J. generally not okay with you initiating sexual relations? If so, it seems like that might be something the two of you might want to explore in couples counseling. It's okay for him to say no if he doesn't feel like having sex, but it's absolutely not okay for him to say stuff like "don't throw yourself at me," as if there were something wrong with you for having a libido that exists independently of his.
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((Deb)) Sorry.
BTW, I saw your original comment on my post and commented back to clarify.
(((Deb)))
Is J. generally not okay with you initiating sexual relations? If so, it seems like that might be something the two of you might want to explore in couples counseling. It's okay for him to say no if he doesn't feel like having sex, but it's absolutely not okay for him to say stuff like "don't throw yourself at me," as if there were something wrong with you for having a libido that exists independently of his.
Aw Deb. That sucks.
(((Deb))) Sheesh. Wow. Not sure what to say.
Is he still alive? :D
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