For our entire marriage I have been the one to make decisions, suggest the way we spend/save money, work on the house, etc...I am really struggling with not being the one to repair my marriage. I am also trying very hard to be honest with myself that I am not the only victim in this mess. I have made mistakes, too.
I want to start working on "us" so that I can move home. But do I really want to work on us or do I just want to go home? I don't know. I think the only way I will know is if we start working on things & see if we can fix this.