On Tuesday night Erin told me all this stuff about Eric (most of which I posted then). She said that she's tired of his lies; tired of his making promises & not fulfilling them; she knows she's attractive & wants to be with someone that appreciates that. I encouraged her to tell him that when she talked to him.
He showed up here at 9:30. "Completely freaking out," she said. I told her I didn't think it was a good idea for her to go out with him but it was her decision.
At 1:30 they were still outside & he was still pacing up & down our sidewalk, waving his arms. I made her come in the house. It was keeping me awake knowing that they were out there.
Last night she came home & asked us for our opinion & advice on their relationship. I was blunt & brutally honest. I told her I think he's a scumbag & I wasn't going to pretend anymore. She said they were going to get back together no matter what we said.
That's when I told her that he's not welcome in our home.
I'm still so angry that she is being so stupid about him that I could spit. I'm not speaking to her right now because I'll say things that are hurtful -- even if true.
I want her to wake up & see him for what he is. A manipulative, lazy, low-life scumbag.
3 comments:
(((Deb))) I totally agree with you that he is terrible for her, but I do think you should be careful to tread with caution here.
I have no idea what I'd do in a similar situation. Hang in there. xox
(((Deb)))
(((Deb))) Hang in there.
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